Well I have been in touch with the developer and after my initial dissapointment it turns out they missed a step out in the instruction in the set up. They are updating this but you must add the + and country code for your own number in the iPhone settings. After re installing on both my and my wifes iPhones this is brilliant. Texts are pushed and you get a pop up even when the phone is in sleep . Better still the texts are free. Seems more reliable than beejive which I've given up on. Also a simpler interface. Thanks to Mario at logiware for his brilliant support.