WillMak said:
Is the stock 512 ram that will come with my ibook enough to do most of the basic tasks?
Yes. Not only that you can run OSX Panther with even less and it still works fine for basic tasks like email, web, wordprocessing, spreadsheets, light work Photoshop stuff, database (4D), etc.
We have iBooks and a PowerBook Lombard running OSX with only 192MB and they work fine. These are not used by power users who expect to have dozens of applications open at the same time and everything to happen lickity split. They do work fine for the lightweight use they get.
In my PowerBook Pismo G3 500MHz with MacOSX 10.3.9 I have 512MB of RAM. I am a "power user" (17 applications open at the moment, programming, database work, web design, heavy Photoshop work, complex Illustrator stuff, etc.) The 512MB of RAM I have is just barely enough for me. I sometimes feel the lack of more RAM. It is when I switch to an application that hasn't been used for a while that I notice a slow down - most notible is bringing Photoshop back to the foreground if it has large files open (e.g., >50MB) and I hadn't been using it for a while. I used to have 1GB of RAM but one of the sticks went bad and was causing kernel panics so I pulled it last summer - I've been running okay since then and no more crashing. I may replace the bad stick and go back up to 512MB of RAM.
WillMak said:
Or should I just order a 1GB stick or ram now while I'm still waiting fo rit to be shipped to me.
I would order as much RAM as I could afford at the time of purchase. Ideally you want to leave one slot open for additional RAM later if possible if you think there is the remotest chance you'll want more RAM in the future. If you have the cash spend it.

RAM is the easiest way to increase the speed of the computer. After that, a faster hard drive. Then a faster processor, front side bus, etc, etc.
I would also get as much VRAM as you can afford - although with the iBook that is not an option (It is with PowerBooks).