1. Absolutely, but it's an iOS-only sharing feature
for a rather limited number of iDevices. I understand that we need to let it grow and slowly replace older methods, and although the market has turned out to be like this, no one likes the 1 year lifespan of smartphones and tablets.
2. Have you tried sending a large video over AirDrop on a Mac? If the iOS AirDrop is anything like its OS X counterpart, you could be standing there for hours to days, depending on the length of the video.
3. Where are all these steps? To send a photo from the share menu you hit (I) Mail, (II) Recipient address bar (III) enter part of a name (and given how fast today's people text each other, entering 1 or 10 letters make no difference once the keyboard is up and running) (IIII) hit send.
4. That I cannot argue with. You're right. (Although I couldn't imagine a scenario where I'm in a rural area and need to send pictures with my smartphone - but that's completely besides the point)
5. Okay, okay, another point for you.
There's nothing wrong with Apple being Apple. It's why we're on this forum, after all 🙂 But let's not create up hype from thin air(...drop! badum tsh).