I think the misconception every time when someone says "I don't think it's a RAM issue" is that we're saying RAM is now meaningless. What we're saying is that trying to use RAM to fix a problem that's not really RAM in nature may work, but it's a sure fire recipe for long term frustration and yet there hasn't been a performance issue that MacRumors hasn't tried to solve by advising people to "throw more RAM at it!"
More RAM couldn't hurt, but the mantra that you're always going to need more RAM is outdated. It WAS true in that day and age when people sized up your computer by asking annoying questions like "Hey, how many megabytes ya got in that bad boy?"
As a developer and semi-professional photographer I've gone from a 64GB tower, to a 32GB laptop, and now to a 16GB laptop with a short stint on an 8GB laptop thrown in for good measure. I'm rockin along and doing more than ever on less RAM than I used 12 years ago.
Sure, I might start doing something that would balloon my resource needs. I might also need a team of asset managers to help me manage the billions of dollars I'll somehow acquire in that same time period, but I've been alive long enough to know that my life and needs will probably be mostly the same in 5 years so it's a waste of energy to lose sleep over things that may never happen.
However, if we were to ever return to a time when how much RAM you have is the difference between a usable computer and one that's an expensive doorstop, I'll gladly change my outlook... but if people start asking me stupid questions again like "how many megabytes ya got in that bad boy" I'm punching them in the mouth.