I think most of the watch bands are pretty good every day bands. The sports bands work very very well for all but formal (to me at least).
The Milanese Loop you'll need to try on. I went to my try on appointment today convinced I was going to love the Milanese loop, and ended up canceling my order for it as an extra band and replacing it for the Link band. Your mileage may vary though.
I think the best advice for everyone is to try them on before deciding. Almost all of the bands differed from my expectations when I saw them in person and tried them on. It's clear that personal preference is a big issue with the watch and bands.
I personally wouldn't get the aluminum watch after seeing it, unless I absolutely wanted to minimize weight. But the stainless steel seemed "light enough", and I found I like the appearance of the SS far better than the aluminum.
I wasn't able to come to a decision anyway, because I think I'll like the black link bracelet. But I only saw it under glass with harsh lighting. There were none to try on. I won't order it without trying it on.
I liked the silver link bracelet, but not as much as I thought I would. I liked the Milanese loop more than I thought I would. I think I'd like a black mesh even better, but they aren't offering one.
I think the Milanese would be fine for an everyday band; my only doubt it that is might be just a
little too bright and sparkly. I don't wear loud stuff, which is why I think I'll like black better than silver.
My only real dislike was the Modern Buckle. The buckle is just to big and too bold, compared to the watch, for my taste.
Oh, and some of the sport band colors turn my stomach. That was one opinion that didn't change when I saw them in person.