So, my ex and me, who had been in an off-and-on relationship for the past three months, finally decided we need to completely cut each other out of each others lives if either of us are ever going to move on (she broke up with me). Yesterday morning was the last time I saw her, and this has now been the longest duration of not speaking to her since July 2009. Naturally I feel lonely and depressed, and I want to know what she's thinking, what she's feeling, whether she's contemplating getting back together with me, etc. She did clarify many, many times that she does not want to be in that kind of relationship with me though, so that does help me a bit in terms of clarity. But anyways, I'm basically not very horny right now, and haven't been since she and I parted for the last time yesterday morning. Nothing makes me feel horny or excited about having sex in the future. Is this a normal side effect of having just broken up with someone that you love? If I don't feel desperate to have sex, I don't feel alive. I know that sounds weird, but I am a virgin, and a core part of who I am that I actually enjoy, is that constant, intense desire to have sex. I enjoy that feeling because it makes me excited about the future, excited about what girls I might meet where, etc. But right now, all of that is gone. I just feel hollow. No excitement, no desire, no sex drive. :-/ What do I do? Will time fix this?