Just got a new 20gGb Photo. When I plug it into the iBook it synch's with iTunes and I get the icon on the desktop and the 'Do not disconnect' warning - which all seems fine. As soon as the update is complete however the icon disappears from the desktop. Is this normal? I'd rather like it to stay on the desktop (especiallyas I downloaded a fancy icon from widget:widget. Any way to make it stay there all the time its connected, even when the update is finished?