High Sierra only got stable in its final major point release update (10.13.6). It was a hot mess pretty much until that point and even then, it didn't hold a candle to how rock solid macOS Mojave was. I don't know that it has ever been as good since Mojave. Certainly Catalina was a dumpster fire with the same kinds of glitches that you're complaining about with Ventura. Big Sur, for how transitional it was in many under-the-hood areas, was pretty damn close to being as stable. Monterey had tons of stupid bugs and Ventura, while fixing a lot of those bugs, introduced a slew of its own. It's not great.
With a couple of exceptions that I hope are to be ironed out before release, I'm extremely optimistic about Sonoma. It would be nice if they didn't break so much stuff from version to version. It was never this bad prior to Apple switching macOS to an annual release cycle.