Okay, originally (in another post) I asked for any explanation why the Ringtones that I loaded onto my iPhone 4S were now stuck on the phone and couldn't be deleted using iTunes and Syncing (only way to get them off was to do a restore to New). I've come to find out that the problem seems to be much bigger. My Music Library is on an external HDD. Some of the songs that I had synced to the iPhone show up in both iTunes and the iPhone...but they are greyed out with a little "Refresh" wheel next to them (however, because they are greyed out, clicking on any part of the wheel or name doesn't do anything). So, being unable to figure out why this was, I thought I would start from scratch and I UNchecked all of the "Sync" categories (i.e.: Music, Movies, Ringtones...everything)...and hit "Sync". After the "Sync", iTunes shows my iPhone as completely clean with ~ 57GB of free space.....However....when you look on my iPhone, ALL of my Music, Movies, Ringtones, etc. are still there. Any thoughts as to why iTunes (10.5) is oblivious as to what is going on with my iPhone 4S? Thanks, J.