I am looking at basically the same problem. I have several accounts set up on my iMac (Me, wife, kids, guest) I want to have ALL of our music go to a central, shared folder so no matter who downloads, buys, rips, or otherwise adds to it, it all goes to the master (shared) music folder. I would like to control access that my kids have to that pool of music and have me of my wife to have access to all of the music pool.
The term "library" gets tossed around incorrectly when describing iTunes. You see,
my library only includes the songs
I like (of course, when you delete a song from iTunes, it asks whether to delete from the
library or delete the file as well). Hers has some the same, some different. My kids library only has what we deem "appropriate".
So far, I have it set up so that each account does not "copy files to iTunes music folder when adding to library", but whenever someone rips, downloads, buys, music it doesnt' go to the "shared" folder, it goes to that accounts music folder. I am manually managing the additions from other accounts now but it is tedious and definitely not user friendly. There must be a better way. Help!

hickster