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This looks like the exact ram I previously bought except that it's a new listing that shows the mac pro 2010 is compatible. kingston worked great for me. I'd go for it!
 
I have exactly this Kingston RAM (KTA-MP1333/4G) three of them in my mac pro 2010 hexcore.

working flawless
 
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