You've hit the bulls eye.Google managed to deploy both self-driving cars and an LLM in the same timeframe where Apple spent billions of dollars on its own initiatives in those categories with nothing to show for all its outlays.
Like you, I find it barely believable that Apple solved the same problems as Waymo did and continues to do, but then shelved it without having anything to show for it.
And again, I find it barely believable that Apple will be able to meaningfully compete with Google with frontier AI models.
Apple's strength is not at all in AI, but in ML as it applies to their hardware (cameras essentially).
Apple may just have quite limited goals i.e. make a great personal assistant for the iPhone, Mac etc.
But given that frontier AI models will unlock things like robotics, understanding the human and natural environment etc. just making a great personal assistant is going to limit them in the future. And any glasses product will need the latter.
It's not even got a strength in cloud computing, which for google is a complex compute platform.
Apple uses it as a CDN, storage and sync platform i.e. about the most basic things that that cloud does nowadays.
And by all accounts, Apple has barely any owned cloud capacity, renting most of it. Which is sensible, given its scale, but they don't just seem to have the same expertise that Google has.
I think that Apple has had an amazing run with the iPhone and now the Mac is great again. I love both of these products.
But I think that they're not at all set up to compete well with the next era of computing. They're struggling and will continue to struggle.
If LLMs had not come along, Apple would be in an incredibly strong position. But Cook has mostly optimised them to keep pumping out iPhones and the Mac etc. and is has not at all well equipped Apple for the upset that chatGPT was.
At least they are making huge amounts of money for acquisitions which they will have to do.
Or I guess they could merge with another very complementary company that is set up for the next paradigm of computing i.e. Google.