Fast RAM should clock down for a slower speed memory bus, but that does not always work, or does not work reliably - which is kind-of the point for installed memory. It's much better when you don't have to think about the memory!
That g-skill RAM (from your ThinkPad?) is a step or two faster than what you should expect to work in your 2009 MacBook.
If you want to upgrade, then get memory that you can expect will be compatible. One level up from factory specs will probably work. Faster memory is less likely, and that's what you are running into now. Look for: PC-8500, 1066 Mhz, or PC-10800, 1333 Mhz, DDR3 SO-DIMMs
DON'T get the low voltage (with the L designation). DO go to Crucial and get the stuff that works (assuming you want this to work

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OWC has the right ones, too...
https://eshop.macsales.com/item/OWC/8566DDR3S8GP/