An older relative who's a little on the forgetful side forgot their Apple ID password and asked me to help. They have an iPhone 13, iPad Air 2, iPhone 6 Plus, and an iPhone SE 2nd gen. I tried resetting the password, and it wanted to send a one-time code to a recovery phone. That was fine because they put a SIM card in an Android. I entered the code, but was still prompted for the password, which they didn't have. I tried updating all the devices but that didn't help.
Going through the whole reset password thing with Apple, it eventually asked for a Recovery Key, which my relative didn't have. Finally I talked to Apple Support for nearly 2 hours, and they told me in the end that I would just need to make a new Apple ID. But the kicker is, the relative has Activation Lock on, so if we sign out of the Apple ID, their devices are going to erase and reset, and we will need to contact Apple to remove Activation Lock. We do have the invoice for the iPhone 13 and probably the SE as well, because they're newer, but I doubt we will find receipts for 7+ year ago purchases. My plan is to back up all their devices and then do the erase method and clear activation lock on the two newest devices. Once I create the new Apple ID, I'll add myself as a recovery contact.
But my issue is, how do I get all the data off the phones? Apple support said that if I restored from backup, it would re-enable Activation Lock on the phone. Is there some third-party tool that can pull data from backups? Or just backup the data itself in a third-party tool? I haven't had to deal with an issue like this before so I'm a little unsure what the easiest way to fix this is. It sucks that we have the device passcodes, recovery phone number, and access to the Apple ID email, but there isn't any way to reset the password anymore.
Going through the whole reset password thing with Apple, it eventually asked for a Recovery Key, which my relative didn't have. Finally I talked to Apple Support for nearly 2 hours, and they told me in the end that I would just need to make a new Apple ID. But the kicker is, the relative has Activation Lock on, so if we sign out of the Apple ID, their devices are going to erase and reset, and we will need to contact Apple to remove Activation Lock. We do have the invoice for the iPhone 13 and probably the SE as well, because they're newer, but I doubt we will find receipts for 7+ year ago purchases. My plan is to back up all their devices and then do the erase method and clear activation lock on the two newest devices. Once I create the new Apple ID, I'll add myself as a recovery contact.
But my issue is, how do I get all the data off the phones? Apple support said that if I restored from backup, it would re-enable Activation Lock on the phone. Is there some third-party tool that can pull data from backups? Or just backup the data itself in a third-party tool? I haven't had to deal with an issue like this before so I'm a little unsure what the easiest way to fix this is. It sucks that we have the device passcodes, recovery phone number, and access to the Apple ID email, but there isn't any way to reset the password anymore.
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