i just need to disallow one program and not have windowz like pop-ups askin me bout ever other program, its anoooyin
Why not just use LittleSnitch? It's the absolute best at what it does.
Then configure the Mac OS X firewall properly via Terminal.
You can download and use a utility called WaterRoof to change the built in port filtering firewall (called IPFW.) WaterRoof is a GUI so you won't have to use the terminal. You could just block the port used by the app in question.