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I have SFTP'd in using both Transmit and Cyberduck, Inside the Keyboard folder I can only see that one dat file that I can't really read except with textedit and it only reads "DynamicDictionary-4textmobiletextfreak"
I still have no idea how ONE TIME ONLY, when I copied the keyboard folder to my desktop, inside it had the 6 files that it should. (I have SFTPed it over many times and it's been empty) The plist files can be read with textedit but they are a mess, OR I can read them with Quick Look and they are all neat and make sense. In either case I can see the corrections I have entered over the years are there.
Putting these files inside the Keyboard folder on the new phone has no effect.
I cannot see these files from SFTP window "their stuff" on either phone.
I'm at a standstill.