My wife has had an iPhone for a couple years, and plan on upgrading sometime this June. I do not currently own one, but may purchase one also in June. For her reminders/todo's she's been placing an item into Calendar (synced to iCal via mobileme) or iCal directly.. Her phone is "Binging" all the time with various things she wants to be reminded of etc... Now when I get my iPhone, I do not want all of those "Bing's, Dings, Dongs" but I do want the ability to see her calendar (the family's..). I'm thinking a program like "Todo" or "Things" may work for her, without disrupting my calendar when I get an iPhone too. Curious if anyone out there has run this route and could share their experience, or tell me I'm spot on. Thanks!