Looking for external controls

I just got a bluetooth enabled motorcycle helmet. I would like to be able to control my iphone with a small external control unit and leave my phone in my pocket.

I can answer/end calls, listen to music, adjust volume right on the helmet, so all i really want to be able to do with the external controls would be to pause music and skip tracks.

Something like the "Apple Remote" (http://store.apple.com/us/product/MC377LL/A?fnode=MTY1NDA3NA&mco=MTMzODA4Nzk) would be perfect, but I don't plan on having an "iPod Universal Dock".

I was also thinking, because of the limited functionality of what I need the remote to do, would be like what the control on the stock iphone headphones does. If I were to get this Shure Music Phone Adapter (http://store.apple.com/us/product/TN544LL/A?mco=MTY3ODQ5OTY) would I be able to use the button on the adapter and still have the sound come through Bluetooth? Or would the iphone think that there was a full headset plugged in?

Any thoughts or input would be greatly appreciated.