have you done a full reboot? not just logged out, or rebooted from menu, but shutdown, waited a bit, then hit the power to turn back on -
Yes
is everything up to date OS wise?
yes, it is in the latest version
what is it physically setting on?
low power mode on , wake up Lan OFF, Prevent auto-sleep when screen is off OFF
directly on a hard flat surface?
Yes, on a glass surface. or something soft that might block airflow.
and it's free and clear of all obstuctions around it (2" or 5cm should be enough) -
Yes, it is in front of the glass table. There is no obstruction on either side.
it's in a cool area of your home?
not sitting right next to another pice of electronics that's blowing out hot air. (or anything making heat), or in direct sunlight?
is in front of my monitor
you say "when I log off, it cools down"
are you the only user account?
yes
if there are others does it get hot for them also?
i only have 1 user. I will create another and test. I haven't done this test yet
if you log on as a guest, does it still get warm? (may have to be enabled in users and groups in settings)
can you make a second user account, and see if it still happens?
i will do that, thanks for the idea
my guess would be that you've got some weird process running, (as others have suggested, activity monitor will be your biggest help here).