Skin resistance is a key factor and the current flow (amperage) depends on both voltage and resistance. Assuming resistance the same, voltage governs the amps that flow. Simple example: touch both terminals of a common 9 volt battery with your dry fingers. You feel nothing. Touch both terminals with your tongue, you get a tingle. Wet skin has a lower resistance. This is part of why 120V on dry skin is a pain but likely won't hurt you; 120V when you're soaking wet can kill. 220V gets a bit more dicey, as more current will flow across the same resistance.
Not quite. The original poster is correct. And even though your examples are also correct, in that lower skin resistance allows for more flow and thus, can kill you at lower potentials (voltages) - it's still the current (amperage) that kills you, not the voltage. In a way, you actually gave yourself the answer in your own examples...same voltage + lower resistance = more current flow = death. The reason why your tongue tingles from a 9V battery and your skin doesn't is because more current flows through your tongue due to its lower resistance compared to your skin, not the 9V, which remains unchanged. Bottom line, it is the flow of electrons (current/amperage) that kills you, not the potential difference (voltage). Typical electrostatic shocks are very high voltages, in the thousands (50,000 volts and higher are not uncommon), yet do nothing more than tingle whatever part of your body (usually your hand) is touching something else that causes the discharge (usually the door knob) - these don't kill you because they are very, very low currents.