IDK what RAM he has in mind, but whatever it is, it's massively faster than even the fastest SSDs; Apple's stating 100GB/s on the low-end M2 up to 800GB/s on the M1 Ultra. Even half to 1/3 that (M2) speed (typical for DDR4 in DC config) is PDQ.
An SSD is 6GB/s, on the most expensive Mac configuration, and 1.5GB/s on the least. That's crawling - at least, compared to RAM speeds. Doesn't matter if it's 6000MB/s or 1500MB/s, it's still _crawling_ compared to RAM. Sure, you might not notice it much, but it's still a slowdown. OSs have been getting better at making swapfile / virtual memory usage better for decades, but it's still not as fast as RAM.
You want to avoid swapping, even to an 'ultra-fast ssd', all that you can. To do so, get RAM. Or better, figure out what RAM you need, then get said RAM.