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I went to my menu bar control center, went to mirror icon that you normally go to for extending to your iPad like sidecar and my AVP appeared there
For those struggling with the “connect“ button not appearing when they look at their MacBook, Symphony has an excellent tip. If you click on displays in the Mac menu bar, it’s very easy to select the Vision Pro. If you already have your Mac open, I find this much faster than going to control center
 
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