Oh, I'm late to the party!
@eyoungren Congrats! That MBP will certainly fit into any of her purses (oh, or might be the cause to get another ... ?)
Let her talk to
@Amethyst1 about TB-video-connectors and she will take over your desk and monitors!
I'd stay with the original RAM/SSD-setting and install any miraculous local or cloud-backup-settings to avoid any hassle.
Less is more ... (gessing that from the experience coming from the number pages, my wife uses to keep open in Safari.)
And I'd stay with Mojave to keep 32bit compatibility.
An external USB-drive with encrypted 250GB SSD would be a great 30$ compensation for limited space of the internal drive (and will fit into the purse as well).
Cheers!