First, i just want to say that this is not a problem per se. The buzzing noise is inherent on all c2d processors, and even the core duo. Im sure its been talked about plenty, but its got to do with the power management in the proc. theres nothing wrong with it, its just annoying.
I would try some of what was mentioned, and see what happens. I know crucial makes very cheap and overall reliable ram, but some of the sticks i've seen have been very poorly manufactured.