I applaud all of you for donating!
I have never donated. Both my Mom and Dad needed blood repeatedly in their final months. I would like to start donating to give back, but frankly I’m pretty squeamish. I used to have to lay down to do the regular lab work at my doctors office. I’ve done it enough I can sit in a chair like normal people. I still have to close my eyes. My siblings jokingly say “b-word” instead of blood around me.
Is it ridiculous for me to even think about donating? I definitely know it’s a good thing to do. That’s certain. It’s the actual process that scares me.
That helps a great deal! Thank you! I do try to get a conversation going during a blood draw. It keeps me distracted. I didn’t even know if they would have a place to lay down. I had to have a couple of surgeries in the past year and I was surprised how little it bothered me. Of course I was unconscious during the hard part. haha. Bringing a friend is something I hadn’t thought of!No, it's not ridiculous. When I was in college, I had a single vial of blood drawn for some tests to allow me to study abroad. I got about 10 feet from the building housing the health center before I had to sit down on an outdoor bench to stop the world from getting fuzzy. So I'd say I was pretty close to your scenario of having to lay down to get the lab work done. For me, I've come to understand how much of it is really in my head and I found the formula that works for me to counteract it. All the blood draws from organ donation have helped me work up to blood donation, too. (I think part of it is just building up enough good memories of when things went OK.) What has helped me is to make sure to keep talking to the phlebotomist and to keep joking while things happen. Even though I've come a long way, I still open with, "Now, may I swear when the needle goes in?" And I still never look! I've also learned more about the process, which helps with fear of the unknown. (That squeak that the tubes sometimes make is apparently a good thing?!) All this to say, if you do try to donate, do so with some tricks up your sleeve: bring a friend to help talk you through it, make sure you're in a good head space, and be upfront about the fact that you've had some trouble in the past. There's no shame in laying down for the donation. And there's also no shame in realizing that you are better equipped to give back in other ways. As silly as it may seem, I may never be able to grow my hair out to donate because it's a sensory nightmare for me, and I'm OK with that.
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Thanks! That’s helpful. It’s not really the pain that concerns me. It’s being in the whole environment for more than just a couple of minutes. I had my regular blood draw yesterday. It wasn’t bad. I joked with the guy about being squeamish and he was excellent. He kept me talking and was very friendly. It’s probably the bigger poke that’s needed to give blood that scares me. Plus seeing other people in the room donating. Even with fasting before the poke yesterday I didn’t get dizzy or woozy.You're certainly not alone in being afraid to donate blood. Nobody likes to anticipate pain, even if it's quick and for a great cause. This is human nature, one of our techniques for self-preservation. When having blood taken at a doctor's appointment is necessary, people may grit their teeth and bear it, but when it's optional, like a blood donation, they postpone it indefinitely.
Ironically, phlebotomists at blood donation centers, as specialists, tend to be more experienced at minimizing discomfort, and helping fearful patients, than the nurse at the doctor's office.
I remind myself that stubbing my toe on the leg of my desk hurts more than the jab at the donor center, and that the difference is that I don't know the toe stub is coming.
There's also one way to feel good about helping without getting jabbed. If you remind someone else about donating blood, and they donate because of it, you've added to the blood supply just as if you donated it yourself.
That helps a great deal! Thank you! I do try to get a conversation going during a blood draw. It keeps me distracted. I didn’t even know if they would have a place to lay down. I had to have a couple of surgeries in the past year and I was surprised how little it bothered me. Of course I was unconscious during the hard part. haha. Bringing a friend is something I hadn’t thought of!
Thanks! That’s helpful. It’s not really the pain that concerns me. It’s being in the whole environment for more than just a couple of minutes. I had my regular blood draw yesterday. It wasn’t bad. I joked with the guy about being squeamish and he was excellent. He kept me talking and was very friendly. It’s probably the bigger poke that’s needed to give blood that scares me. Plus seeing other people in the room donating. Even with fasting before the poke yesterday I didn’t get dizzy or woozy.
Well, shoot! I'd encourage you to check back periodically. They change the eligibility rules all the time.I used to donate regularly then they moved the donation centre a couple of miles further away. When they finally moved it back I found out I’m no longer allowed to donate.
I think atrial fibrillation is a fairly permanent block unfortunatelyWell, shoot! I'd encourage you to check back periodically. They change the eligibility rules all the time.
Thanks! All of what you said is very helpful!And if you don't want to see a ton of other people, then you want to donate at the center, rather than at a drive. Blood drives tend to fill up; the center is pretty calm.
Ooof! Sorry to hear that! Kudos for you for finishing it even with the pain.Donated today. One of my most painful in memory. The phlebotomist didn't open the clamp on the collection bag, the pressure during and just after the stick caused quite a bit of pain that she initially thought was due to scar tissue. They were about to pull the needle and cancel the donation, then they found the closed clamp. 10 minutes later I was moving to the canteen for a snack and bottle of water. I had several people around me until things settled down and I was flowing, wanting to make sure all was good.
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Thanks. My pain tolerance has proven to be pretty high. The person starting my donation, the one that had the trouble, has started me previously and she even commented that I usually tolerate it pretty well so when I expressed pain she knew something had to be pretty wrong.Ooof! Sorry to hear that! Kudos for you for finishing it even with the pain.
My pain tolerance is downright weird. Rip an organ out and I’m more or less OK. But give me stitches and I scream like a baby.Thanks. My pain tolerance has proven to be pretty high. The person starting my donation, the one that had the trouble, has started me previously and she even commented that I usually tolerate it pretty well so when I expressed pain she knew something had to be pretty wrong.
Pain tolerance - I recently had a cyst removed from my back, it had gotten infected so the wound needed to be packed rather than being closed up. My mom (since I'm single and live alone) was doing the post-care and I never really had pain from that, even with gauze being shoved in the wound.