i can't find a way to set the default calendar to be used when a recognized date is highlighted in Mail.app for Snow Leopard. the current behavior is that it uses the first calendar shown in the iCal calendar list on the left sidebar of iCal. further, in iCal i cal reorder calendars but only the ones on my local machine can be at the top of the list and not the Exchange calendar that is my primary one. what i have to do now is keep remember to switch calendars each time i add a new iCal entry through Mail.app. any solutions, fixes, ideas?