Mail question

[uhlawboi80]

the last couple of days Mail has been really pissing me off. I delete messages and they dont go away, so i restart the program and they have gone grey and i cant delete them again, yet they wont leave my inbox.

then this morning my good friend who works at exxonmobil tried to send my a zip file via email that contained pictures from our group outting last night...and for some reason .mac bounced it back to him. What i would like to know is 1) why did it bounce it back, esp considering i get emails from his addy all the time 2) how can i make mail stop rejecting the darn email and 3) where is Mail sticking "junk mail" so i can periodically see if it junked something thats not junk.

thanx

 

[wrldwzrd89]

I can answer question #3.

There should be a Junk folder listed along with your other folders (ONLY if junk mail filtering is set to "Automatic"). If your junk mail filter is still on "Training", junk mail doesn't go anywhere unless you wrote a rule to redirect it (which is unlikely to be effective). Your other questions have me stumped, though.