Has anyone found a way to get them to let u upgrade early? My upgrade date says possibly 11/16/2011 and although it's just a month, I'm making my girl switch from another carrier to AT&T for a family plan so we both want to iP4s together. I'm upgrading from an iP4 that I purchased July of last year. Called AT&T and they said that it's out of their hands and that the upgrade dates are determined by AT&T and apple at the same time. I apologize if there is a thread that contains this but I searched and couldn't find an answer if anyone made their carrier make an exception for the upgrade earlier than their eligibility date.