MBA 13" has 12-15 hours of battery life, and rMBP 13" has about 9 hours. But even the rMBP is good for one day use without taking the charger.
The MBA 11"/13" and rMBP 13" are about the same in performance, except for programs that can use GPU acceleration.
The deciding factors are screen and portability. If you like the retina screen, which IMO is gorgeous, then rMBP 13" is the choice. If portability is the deciding factor, then MBA 13" or 11" (11.6") is the right choice. If you must have both, then wait for retina MBA 12".