Hi , newish member here , I'd like to say what a great place this is for the most part , very informative etc etc .
After a day of being new to the internet , struggling around I found this place and was great full I did as this site has helped my knowledge increase a massive amount .It took me an age to find my way around properly , I suppose what I'm trying to say is for new folks like myself , it would be a really good idea to have some info/ links etc flash up on screen the first few times logging in , directing new users to the various & very helpful basic Mac info & threads/guides that are available here .
May seem such an easy thing to find these threads/guides to you experienced guys but I can tell you it took me a week or two at least , now I'm not the brightest torch in the dark but I'm not stupid either !.
A little nudge in the right direction would have saved me a good amount of time and although I personally did search from the beginning ,I believe that something like I suggest could save you guys the headache of having the same thread pop up over and over and over
cheers
rj
EDIT , Sorry I almost forgot , in answer to the initial question maybe some people are just not very good at expressing themselves using words on a screen and might be really nice in 'real life'.