Hello all- I am totally new to this and only found out about this website from someone who is way more technologically smarter than me. So my question/problem is: My AOL Instant Messenger application on my iPhone gets instant messages from complete strangers, then I see their conversation, the two people talking, I'm never involved. This all pops up on the main screen. If I follow directions, "slide to view" the messages are never there. I had 37 messages waiting today, only there really weren't any there. It's from the same people and it's not a proximity thing, I could be at home or work or out and my phone gets it. Any clue what is going on and how to stop it? A similar thing happens with my Facebook application. I'll get a pop up notification that someone posted about a picture of me, or sent me a message or a comment. Also all from complete strangers and when I go to open it in the app, it's never there. My profile is pretty darn private, so they aren't looking at all my stuff and sending me these things. Any clue what's happening and how to stop it? My iPhone is a 2g, jail broken, 3. something firmware. I know three people that have the exact same type of phone and it doesn't happen to them, only me. Thanks for ANY insight to my issues!!!