wow. you really live in a bubble, and i don't mean that in a bad way. it's just that lack of experience can be a real liability, and lead to statements like the one above.
have you ever lived below the poverty line? have you ever wondered if there would be food for supper/dinner/lunch/etc? have you ever needed medical care, and didn't have a insurance card to present at the desk? have you ever had to support yourself with no chance of help from a parent/relative? have you ever had to talk to someone calling about the late payments due to the supporting yourself thing and not having enough to cover the basics? have you ever been without basics like heat/water/electricity?
working 2 jobs with no benefits does not help a single parent 'better themselves' and it provides them no time to seek assistance from the 'programs' you are likely to recommend next based on the comment above.
i think the best line i can come up with would be 'college was supposed to teach you how to think, not what to think'. how about doing a bit of
volunteer work with all that free time which would give you a broader perspective in your local community, and something else to add to the resume besides school related activities. military, peace corps, something... you wouldn't believe how the rest of the world lives. go see. really.
kinda long, but watching the 30 days episode on
minimum wage might also be a good use of your time. peace.