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iLikeToDrum

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Dec 2, 2010
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Don't you HATE them?!!

I have a current interest and she's pretty freakn good at em.

She says shes making me a mix cd... it's how she keeps friendships going.

I don't have to make her one... but she loves getting cds.

Wants to go hike this mountian... told her we should go... said "get a bunch of people to go, maybe I'll come. I really want to."

IDK what to think of her. She flirts, but then goes back in her corner. She's very introverted, so maybe this is outta her comfort zone.
 
Oops, I'm sorry. It appears I accidentally wandered into your blog.

Carry on.
 
Life's short, ask her if she wants to get in bed... This is an internet forum not your therapist. Just ask her where is this relationship heading and discuss it with her. She should then tell you straight up in a conversation, friends or a romantic interest.
 
Well, the main point of this... I think she's trying to be friends and see about the possibility of dating. Seams interested, stares a lot talks to me a fair bit.

I think I should wait a little longer... Right?
 
As her if you can bang her like a drum. That will either seal the deal or kill it. At least by then you'd know.
 
iLikeToDrum said:
Well, the main point of this... I think she's trying to be friends and see about the possibility of dating. Seams interested, stares a lot talks to me a fair bit.

I think I should wait a little longer... Right?
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If you already think she's crazy -- before you've started dating -- just drop it. I tell you, girls only get crazier over time.
 
She likes you but she doesn't want to be too forward since she isn't getting any vibes from you. You have to be pretty blunt and outrageous when flirting; people don't pick up on your interest when you are being subtle. Especially since you said she's introverted...you're gonna have to wait a long time till she gears herself up to come on strong enough for you to interpret it as unambiguous. Ask her out.
 
iLikeToDrum said:
Wants to go hike this mountian... told her we should go... said "get a bunch of people to go, maybe I'll come. I really want to."
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This is all the info you need. She's not comfortable enough to be alone with you i.e. she doesn't want anything serious/intimate to happen. It's the same as a girl who asks if it's ok to bring her friend on a date.

I've had female friends make me mix CDs but it didn't mean they wanted to get involved with me.

Nice gestures don't always = they want to screw...a lot of times its just basic friendliness.
 
Eh, I had a friend come along on the first date (sort of a date, we all went to a movie) with my husband. It's a good backup in case stuff starts to go wrong, and you can't be too cautious sometimes. I'd be leery about going up a mountain alone with any guy unless I've known him for a very long time. If she's brushing you off with "Yeah, we should hang out...sometime" and not latching onto any suggestions you toss out there....she's not interested.
 
Snub her. You see? Women, they like that! Yes! I understand women. The snub is good, they love the snub!

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