mixed signals.

Discussion in 'Community Discussion' started by iLikeToDrum, Jul 27, 2011.

  1. iLikeToDrum macrumors member

    Dec 2, 2010
    Don't you HATE them?!!

    I have a current interest and she's pretty freakn good at em.

    She says shes making me a mix cd... it's how she keeps friendships going.

    I don't have to make her one... but she loves getting cds.

    Wants to go hike this mountian... told her we should go... said "get a bunch of people to go, maybe I'll come. I really want to."

    IDK what to think of her. She flirts, but then goes back in her corner. She's very introverted, so maybe this is outta her comfort zone.
  2. dmr727 macrumors G3


    Dec 29, 2007
    Oops, I'm sorry. It appears I accidentally wandered into your blog.

    Carry on.
  3. dukebound85 macrumors P6


    Jul 17, 2005
    5045 feet above sea level
    just ask her out and stop overanalyzing already
  4. StvenH90 macrumors regular

    Jun 13, 2011
    Life's short, ask her if she wants to get in bed... This is an internet forum not your therapist. Just ask her where is this relationship heading and discuss it with her. She should then tell you straight up in a conversation, friends or a romantic interest.
  5. Liquorpuki macrumors 68020


    Jun 18, 2009
    City of Angels
    Tell her your into her

    Stop microanalyzing everything
  6. iLikeToDrum thread starter macrumors member

    Dec 2, 2010
    Well, the main point of this... I think she's trying to be friends and see about the possibility of dating. Seams interested, stares a lot talks to me a fair bit.

    I think I should wait a little longer... Right?
  7. GoCubsGo macrumors Nehalem


    Feb 19, 2005
    As her if you can bang her like a drum. That will either seal the deal or kill it. At least by then you'd know.
  8. TheyCallMeSaint macrumors regular

    Oct 17, 2010
    If you already think she's crazy -- before you've started dating -- just drop it. I tell you, girls only get crazier over time.
  9. Performa636CD macrumors member

    Dec 12, 2006
    Cair Paravel
    I think she's either into you and hedging her bets (for whatever reason) or she's not romantically into you. Just my initial thoughts.
  10. Contiguous macrumors member

    Jul 22, 2011
    She likes you but she doesn't want to be too forward since she isn't getting any vibes from you. You have to be pretty blunt and outrageous when flirting; people don't pick up on your interest when you are being subtle. Especially since you said she's introverted...you're gonna have to wait a long time till she gears herself up to come on strong enough for you to interpret it as unambiguous. Ask her out.
  11. daneoni macrumors G4


    Mar 24, 2006
    This is all the info you need. She's not comfortable enough to be alone with you i.e. she doesn't want anything serious/intimate to happen. It's the same as a girl who asks if it's ok to bring her friend on a date.

    I've had female friends make me mix CDs but it didn't mean they wanted to get involved with me.

    Nice gestures don't always = they want to screw...a lot of times its just basic friendliness.
  12. Contiguous macrumors member

    Jul 22, 2011
    Eh, I had a friend come along on the first date (sort of a date, we all went to a movie) with my husband. It's a good backup in case stuff starts to go wrong, and you can't be too cautious sometimes. I'd be leery about going up a mountain alone with any guy unless I've known him for a very long time. If she's brushing you off with "Yeah, we should hang out...sometime" and not latching onto any suggestions you toss out there....she's not interested.
  13. RawBert macrumors 68000


    Jan 19, 2010
    North Hollywood, CA
    Snub her. You see? Women, they like that! Yes! I understand women. The snub is good, they love the snub!

  14. iLikeToDrum thread starter macrumors member

    Dec 2, 2010
    HAHA. What exactly is snubbing? How does it work?

    Do I treat it any different since this is church?
  15. RawBert macrumors 68000


    Jan 19, 2010
    North Hollywood, CA
    Look right at her for a sec, then turn away. Don't say hello. She WILL go crazy for you. Just try it. :)
  16. -tWv- macrumors 68000


    May 11, 2009
    This. Hahaha
  17. Leet Apple macrumors 6502a

    Leet Apple

    Nov 10, 2009
    Ask her out

    if she says no say you were just kidding

    then just play this song
    Click Me

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