I hope someone can help with this, I'm tearing my hair out here. I used to use Adium, but then it stopped adding contacts, it would say they're offline even if they weren't. When Messenger 8 came out I tried it, and it seemed to work fine on that. Now it's doing the exact same thing again, and even worse, now when contacts add me and I accept, it adds them to the contact list but still shows them as offline! I've tried reinstalling it, and I've also made a new (3 now!) account and still the same. It seems to work at first (but I can only be added, not add a contact) and then breaks slowly. Anyone else experienced this? And is there any way to fix it? Just ask if you need spec info. I didn't know what would be relevant.