My Fix
So this is what I did....
Exported the 10 or so tables I absolutely needed from MS SQL as Excel tables. Two of them are 60,000 records plus, so Excel is a bit of dog.
Took em home to my mac, saved as CSV,
Downloaded TextWrangler, (I miss BBedit Lite) to clean up some formatting.
Created the Tables from the command line and set everything to VACHAR(40) to save time.
Modified the fields I needed to query and work with using PHPMyAdmin so they had the proper definitions.
Downloaded CocoMySQL development version which imports CSV. Now that I understand the CSV import in PHPMyADMIN I didn't need to CocoMySQL tool, but if you don't want to work with a web interface, CocoMySQL is pretty good, and it'd free also.
Been using PHPMyAdmin to learn and write needed SQL Queries.
Finding the Utilities, Installing the packages I needed and taking a complete crash course in SQL took a full day day, but I got the data in.
Spent today hacking away a SQL, have a lot more to learn so I can use all this efficiently, but it is a powerful set of tools and I wish I had spent the time doing this a year ago. Would have save me a lot of time. Now when I have the SQL queries written I can use them as templates for a lot of other projects around the same data set.
I am a little worried that I have opened some gaping security holes in my machine, but found an App called WebLock which configures Apache Security, so I am pretty sure I am only accessible from the local host. I need to review everything to make sure I don't make a mess of things with Root Access. I need to learn all the command line configs so I can lock things down. I'll just shut down the services when I am not running them for now.
Apple needs to make a Macintosh front End to MySQL and OpenOffice. The would kick MS off the Mac platform. I would certainly pay for both of them.