Another voice here for zero unprovoked failures. Currently, 2 ipads, 2 iphones, a 2020 iMac and an m2 MB Air, along with PC's running linux (two on all the time, 6 more spun up as needed). I've had Mac hardware around since about 1997 (a Performa 6100), and the 1999 Powerbook (Lombard) actually still boots and runs an early Mac OS X, although the screen backlight is just about dead. The only failures were my fault; the predecessor to the m2 Air was a 2013 rMBP and I was going for 10 years on it, except it met with a fatal accident on the Deutsche Bahn in late 2022; and the precedessor to that one was a 2009 MBP that got a glassful of red wine dumped into it (and it even survived after a deionized water rinse and week-long dry, although the DVD drive was toast).
One thought I had right away: what's your AC power like? Try plugging your computers and chargers into a good surge suppressor, and replace it/them every 3-4 years. This level of breakage suggests either some serious static electricity problems, probably strong enough to be painful; or garbage power possibly making it through the charger adapters.