I've had these issues for a while, and only today have they become a great annoyance. Here is scenario one. I have no calls going. I call my wife and it rings to her voicemail. During her voicemail greeting, she calls back and my phone prompts me with 3 options Ignore Hold and answer End call -Ignore sends her to voicemail...not my goal -Hold and answer means I get to talk to her, but I end up leaving a 2 minute long silent voicemail. Also, I cannot receive a third call during this 2 minutes. If it happens to be a call that doesn't auto-disconnect, I'll have two calls running the entire time and cannot receive another incoming call. Big problem when I'm on a 3 hour conference call. -End call sends her to voicemail and ends the call I have to leave her a message. Also not my goal. How do I end one call and answer the second incoming call? ------------------------------------------- Second scenario I am on a long conference call and my wife calls in. I hit the "hold and answer" option and everything is perfect. Then she does not hang up and instead just puts her phone in her purse. I have two options here Swap calls End -Swap calls will swap, but the call with my wife's phone is still going. She has unlimited minutes, but not unlimited battery. Additionally, she will not hear her phone ring if someone else calls her until the ongoing call is over. -End hangs up BOTH calls. In some cases I cannot call back into the particular conference system, or if I do it announces and interrupts the call and is just flat out rude. Another time this is an issue is if the call simply does not disconnect when the second caller hangs up. How do I disconnect just one call if the "End" button hangs them both up? I'm running iOS 5.1.1 and I did a restore of the phone a few days ago when I got was starting to get annoyed with this.