My annoying cousin wants to come over...

[gregdrummeraz]

What should I do? all she does is start drama with us. And she only wants to see the "right" people, and they are not here.


If I tell her she cant come, then we will here about it at ever holiday till the invention of a new one, and we are pretty full on major holidays.



If I tell her she can, then I get bugged and annoyed for 2 hours.


Any advice?

 

[bartelby]

Tell her she can't come round.

It's not hard.

 

[gregdrummeraz]

Tell her she can't come round.

It's not hard.

I forgot to mention my mom does photography for my aunt(annoying cousins mother) who does real estate..... that would not go over to well.

 

[iShater]

I'm almost in the same bought. Except I am pro-visits vs. anti-visits.

It is such a touchy decision, how do you keep peace with everybody and not stress yourself and your life out.

Best of luck. You are gonna need it.

 

[bartelby]

Feign death then. It's the only option.

 

[gregdrummeraz]

Not a bad idea, I mean really. It looks like you have put a lot of thought into this. almost as much as I have.

What about then next holiday when I am alive and good?

 

[72930]

Not a bad idea, I mean really. It looks like you have put a lot of thought into this. almost as much as I have.

What about then next holiday when I am alive and good?

Suicide?

 

[.Andy]

Sounds like you've got the hots for your cousin.

 

[bartelby]

Not a bad idea, I mean really. It looks like you have put a lot of thought into this. almost as much as I have.

What about then next holiday when I am alive and good?

Feign death again. You got better this time.

 

[Jaffa Cake]

Tell her you're going out. Then you don't run the risk of being found out for not being properly dead.

 

[Mikey-]

Invite her over and "accidentally" fall asleep

 

[OllyW]

What about then next holiday when I am alive and good?

Use this excuse

 

[iShater]

So who does she actually start the drama with? how long is she traveling? how long is she staying?

 

[gregdrummeraz]

But I would miss apple product releases...

 

[PlaceofDis]

either put up with it or say no

 

[gregdrummeraz]

She starts drama with all of us. this girl is a nightmare... I swear she's a lesbian too man. she complains about the way someone's hair is done, all the way to there socks.

She leaves sunday but is staying at her parents house, not here.

 

[yellow]

2 hours? Wait until you have in-laws.
2 hours of a whiny cousin will be good practice for the true hell of in-laws.

 

[gregdrummeraz]

Yeah, seeing as she is a bible major at manhattan college in kansas. hmm, that probably would not go over to well.

 

[Jaffa Cake]

she complains about the way someone's hair is done, all the way to there socks.

To be fair, it does sound like their hair is a bit on the long side if it goes all the way to their socks. Would it really hurt to have a bit of a trim?

 

[gregdrummeraz]

what would be wrong with inlaws??? why complain?

To be fair, it does sound like their hair is a bit on the long side if it goes all the way to their socks. Would it really hurt to have a bit of a trim?

thats funny, good one jaffa...

 

[iShater]

2 hours? Wait until you have in-laws.
2 hours of a whiny cousin will be good practice for the true hell of in-laws.

Hehehehe, or until your s.o. meets his/her in-laws

 

[jb60606]

leave

who says you have to stay home?

 

[atszyman]

2 hours out of a day? Suck it up and deal with it. How are you going to handle working at a job for 8+ hours every day if you can't suck it up for 2 hours to deal with one annoying relative, consider it practice for adulthood, you'll have to deal with annoying people for more than two hours and more often than just the holidays at some point.

You can always ignore her and just nod and say "uh-huh" every time there's a pause where it sounds like you should respond. Eventually she'll get the point, and if she doesn't you have a new strategy for dealing with it.

 

[MacNut]

She starts drama with all of us. this girl is a nightmare... I swear she's a lesbian too man. she complains about the way someone's hair is done, all the way to there socks.

She leaves sunday but is staying at her parents house, not here.

Tell her to shut the hell up or get out. It sounds like she needs a swift kick.

 

[gregdrummeraz]

Whats an s.o.??