I agree with your last paragraph. first ones not true with me. I do not NEED to deal with this person, shes a relative. but an employee is very different..
On the contrary, the point is very valid.
As the old saying goes, blood is thicker than water.
More importantly, you should realize that family will always be there for you, and even if you guys despise each other, you should try to maintain a cordial, even if fake, relationship because you never know what the future holds. No need to burn a bridge until you're sure you'll never need to cross it again.
My names gregdrummer... kinda guyish dontcha think hahahahahah
Honey, that don't mean anything these days.
WTF? When did I start using the word "honey?"
Hmm... seeing as I know her far better then you, I have my reasons for suspecting her to be gay. Dont put words in my mouth...
I'm still wondering why that's even relevant.
Does it make her different in some way you wouldn't like? Are you looking for a problem when one doesn't exist?
And my dad does not like her nor do 2 of my 5 brothers.
I have two interesting thoughts which arise from this information:
1) Is it really the fact that you and your brothers don't like her, or that you are carrying on the prejudices of your father? I know you'd like to think that you hate her all by yourself, but parents can have a profound effect on the way we view our relatives.
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2) You have 5 other brothers? Are you the youngest? I realize this seems tangential, but it feeds a hunch that I gathered from your earlier "I think she's a lesbian" post.
Maybe it's time for someone to stop projecting, but then that's just me and my crazy ideas.
My mom disagrees quiet a bit with her ways
What "ways" are these exactly? Is she doing things that puts her life or others lives into peril? Does she steal? Trespass? Burglarize?
Or is this merely a "I don't like her taste in music, hairstyles, and clothing, so I choose to not like her" sort of deal?
and lastly my other brother is not even around, but does "appreciate" her presence when she is.....
I think this is demonstrative that she can in fact be good company, and that perhaps you've all been too judgmental from the start.
Just a hunch, but would this cousin be from your father's side? I believe you mentioned that your aunt and your mother do business, but you didn't mention which side of the family she's from.
Nonetheless, we're talking about a total time of two hours. If you're telling me that you can't deal with someone for just two hours, I don't know how you're going to be able to deal with the work force, in-laws, annoying people at the movies, etc. In fact, why not just watch a movie? It would keep her quiet and you wouldn't have to make it overly obvious that you're trying to avoid her.
Or, as others mention, just go out with friends when she's expected to be over. There are plenty of ways to avoid her; I think you just need to try harder.
