My estranged husband disabled my iPhone 3gs. My Mac Mini recently died, and the only backup I have of two years of photos and videos of my daughter is on my phone. Last time he became angry and shut it off, I could still use it an iPod touch--this time, it is all blocked except to make emergency calls. Can he erase my photos and videos, or will the information still be stored on the phone? (He told me once when trying to hide texts from another woman that "with one push of a button" he could erase everything from his phone. Now I am afraid that he will do that to me.) He worked for Apple for five years and is very smart (He successfully blocked a computer professional from finding huge amounts of porn on his computer several years ago.) Are my pictures safe, or is there a chance that they will be gone forever?