I was the first person I knew to get the iPhone 4, so I never tried FaceTime too much. When I first tried it, I tried it with a kid at work, I'd send the FaceTime invite and he'd never get the message that I'd like to start a FaceTime session. When he'd send one to me - it would just say connecting forever. We just figured we were on a crappy network at work and that was the problem. Fast forward a month later and my brother gets his iPhone 4...we try to FaceTime on our home network and we still have the same problem. He never recorded my FaceTime invites, and when he sends them it just says connecting indefinitely. Is this a common problem? I've looked around and can't find too much about it.