amazingdm: Sorry you're having issues but you have three other threads for the same issue this year and blueroom found one for last year. It isn't clear to me if you're following the advice given and there is a lot of confusion around syncing/not syncing, texts, current iOS/not current IOS.
Because a Genius tells you there's nothing wrong doesn't mean it's not slow. Assuming your phone(s) have the same performance as the gazillion other iPhones out of the box, you are going to figure out what you do to it to make it slow. It might be one or more of your 150 apps, or that you don't sync, or your text vault, or jb (if you did), or a mountain of other things. It's just like PC support when you have two PCs that were built with the same image and one crashes all the time, something happened to it that didn't happen to the stable one. It doesn't mean you meant to but if your phone is slow then there is something on it that it doesn't like.
You're going to have to be surgically precise if you want to resolve the slowness. Sync to iTunes and make sure everything is saved and then put it on the latest iOS and restore it as a new phone so it's no different that when you took it out of the box. Benchmark it. Slowly start putting your settings and apps back on it and benchmark frequently. At some point you will find out what's slowing it down or you'll get back to your original configuration with no slowness.
But please, stick with it and fix it. There are too many incomplete threads already for this issue and you've got a lot of folks trying to help.