My Player friend

Yup, he sounds like a dick and you sound like a whiny bitch. (I'm sure neither are true) Tell him he has to respect women more than that.

 

...how old are you?

 

Well you've certainly convinced me.

 

Stop cockblocking.

 

Well sorry but this sort of thing won't get you very far in life.

 

Learn some skills, so he actually has competition from you.
sounds u may lack some self confidence

 

Don't hate the playa. Hate the game.

 

Just wondering, do you see yourself having any sort of serious relationships with the girls he's hitting on? If not, let the player play; you know he'll lose in the long run. This may not sound helpful, but your friend sounds like half the other guys at my school (high school sophomore). If you don't like any of the girls he's interested in, let them make their own mistakes. I assume you're in high school as well, and you may not be looking for a long term relationship, but if the majority of the girls at your school will be interested in your 'friend' and his obvious pimp-ness, they don't seem like the type of girls you'd want to be with anyway.

I know I made a lot of generalizations, but I hope you find some of it helpful...

 

Man, for a sophomore you are incredibly mature, both in this post and others I've seen. Kudos to you!

I also happen to agree with Mr. Giver.

 

Wow thanks!

 

As someone who married his HS sweetheart, I agree with this. It takes two to tango, and if girl with the bf is a ho, why stop your friend? He's having fun, the girl is having fun, let them reap the benefit/pitfalls of their own actions.

He may be treating girls like a commodity, but the girls that let him deserve it.

 

Yeah dude. Stop it.

Sound advice.

You're dead on, Mr. G. Those girls are always looking for the next best thing.



OP, it sounds like you're a little jealous of your friend's abilities......

 

Perhaps wishing you had as much game as he does?

Let him have fun...who really loses out?

 

He's an alpha, not much you can do about it.

What happens now doesn't matter a bit later down the road anyway, as you'll soon learn.

 

All the "players" I knew in high school are all losers who still live with their parents and are working minimum wage jobs, some with no job at all. When they went to college, it was all party and no study.

My advice: let him do his thing and you do yours.

 

No, you don't.

Seems like someone's in need of a self-confidence check.

 

1) Ask him to help you improve your own game.
2) Tell the girls at your school that this friend has herpes.
3) ???
4) Profit!

 

Haha. That's all I gotta say.

 

I think the OP is in love with his best friend and deep down inside hates that he's such a player for girls.

 

Now that's no good at all. But yea, it sounds like this "prick" and them girls deserve each other. But actively going for a girl who was already with someone does make him sound like a bit of a prick.

Just let him be and potentially wreck his own life. You go on and find nicer girls, or blokes, or whatever.

 

While he seems to be out of control...you also sound like you're hating. Tell him what you think and let him be, if he listens-good if not you did what you could. In the interim, stop hating and start learning

 

Props to Mr. Giver for some good sound advice!!

To the OP, seriously I wouldn't sweat it too much; in a few years you'll be off in college/career and your buddy will be hitting bars still trying to get yum. Stuff happens...

I am curious though...did you friend have a chic who "do did him dirty" in the past? Most of the dude's I know that behave that way towards chics only do because they were hurt in the past.