I am desperate. My son died unexpectedly and his iPhone 3g was passcode protected. He had photos, songs and possibly a reason for his death. The carrier is ATT; he was on my plan. I understand that the phone can be restored but everything will be lost, and I don't want to do that. I want his pictures and his music, and possibly his most recent texts. I do have his computer, and I plugged his phone in to iTUnes but cannot get into his phone. I've been told by Apple, Att and an authorized Apple repair center that there is no way. I am not dishonest as a rule, but just this one time, I need to know how or if there is a way to get in to my son's phone.