I'm puzzled. Set it to sort by received or sent time, and only scroll up to older messages when needed.I wish there were a way to just show the most recent 50 messages like Mail.app for the iPhone.
I'm not sure what you mean by "synch with Gmail". One of the mailboxes I currently access via IMAP is hosted by Gmail, but I'm puzzled by your use of "synch".If you synch with Gmail, how do you handle the duplicate messages? E.g. one msg in the Inbox, dup in All Mail, another dup in the Family folder.
As for All Mail -- if you don't use it (I sure don't), then ignore it. Or better yet unsubscribe from it. When I moved my personal domain to Gmail I initially would periodically just 'delete' everything in All Mail to clear out space on my MBP's disk, but then doing so became really, really flaky -- the other end would freeze, or bomb out halfway through. So I just unsubscribed from it.
Whatever your Family folder is, I don't have one.
For personal email I don't care as I generally sent plaintext email anyway. For business email it just looks unprofessional.
HUH? How do you figure that a message body in magenta Comic Sans is "professional"? Sending someone a friggin' MS Word document -- now THAT is unprofessional, but trying to educate the perps (which I've tried) is like pounding sand down a rat hole (which I've also done). There are occasions when I'll go rich text (alas, not the MIME standard, but probably dumbass HTML) to cast a block of pasted text in a fixed-width font when I know that the recipient can view it properly, but there are a number of people and processes in our company that would be annoyed by needless encoding.
I've never wanted to, but clearly YMMV.First, labels are treated as folders in Mail, so you cannot add multiple labels to a single email.
Complain to Gmail or find a more traditional provider. Gmail's IMAP is an interface to their nontraditional mail system. I personally find it a bit annoying and wish it would just act traditionally, but Google probably figures that the best approach is to provide an experience as close to their web mail interface as possible for Jane User (like my wife) who has *only* ever used email via a web interface. When people ask to use a computer at my home to check their email, and I ask them if they just need a web browser, or what, I invariably get a reaction along the above lines -- people have no idea that there's any other way to do it.That's just one thing, not to mention the strange folders Mail.app automatically creates as labels in your Gmail like "[Gmail] Archive" or stuff like that. I really hate not to be able to "archive" and "delete" properly on Mail.
I'm not sure what you mean by "archive" "properly", but delete works well enough if you ignore the [All Mail] thing. If you don't like the smart-folder-like things from Gmail, unsubscribe from them and you won't have to look at them.