Need app for finding duplicate or similar files

I need an app that can help me find, compare and delete duplicate or similar files. I need to be able to set different criteria for what is considered a duplicate or similar file, such as file name, size, date etc. So I want to be able to find files where the name is the same but size is different, or where size and date is the same but name is slightly different.

I also want serious auto-mark features so that I can bulk select files for deletion. To be able to set a priority order for folders is a must. As well as a list of rules that can be set to my preference, such as lower resolution gets selected or oldest date etc.

For photos I use PhotoSweeper which works very well. I'm looking for something similar for all types of files. Today I've tried Duplicate Detective, DupeGuru, Duplicates Cleaner, but none had the features I need. The closest was Gemini, but it didn't have enough settings to easily auto-mark the files for deletion.