Hi, I got an my first iphone (3gs) a couple of weeks ago and have been searching for a case ever since, reading reviews online, etc., and I just can't decide what to get. It seems like every case has some sort of drawback. I already dropped my phone once and am so bummed about very minor nicks in the chrome and a scratch on the corner. I have 3 kids so I need a good protective case as my 4 y/o likes to fiddle with my phone and play games etc. The ones I'm looking at are the Otterbox commuter TL, Iskin solo, Speck Candyshell or See thru. I don't want something super "flashy" but I would like something with a bit of style. My husband got the Otterbox commuter and it's way too bulky for me but I like that it has a screen protector. A screen protector is a must for me. Any suggestions or thoughts?