Ask not for help
My advice: Don't come to this forum and ask ANY "advice" on anything design related. You just get the same response over and over. You will become frustrated because things you consider a proper question by your normal social standards, will be considered improper by the standards of professional designers on these boards, who make a daily living out of design.
I can see their need to protect their trade. And I can see that they are frustrated by people asking for free advice, asking for pointers, or giving services at far too low prices, or even for free. The down side to their protective, and frustrated, behavior is that these forums become a place of snobbery for the average Joe. While professionals see it as their task to enlighten the average Joe about their field of work and how this is ruined by the average Joe and their behavior in not seeking professional help or doing some intensive ground work, the average Joe will become equally frustrated because he will never see the point they are making and just wants some "help" for something.
I just wish there was a middle way, where we could just help people on their way just a little bit, without the lecturing bit. While being protective of the design trade is good, I feel that sometimes this protective behavior comes across as being too harsh, or will be seen as repetitive ranting, and will sour any goodwill and lead to the average Joe doing the design stuff without the help of good design professionals.
I wish some people could just be a little bit more inspirational, also towards the amateur design people. Is it not possible that the amateur might become the next big graphic designer on the planet? Yes, he will have to work hard, go to school and learn stuff. Well, this will probably not happen through these boards, as any good intentions will soon fade.