Ok, I'll try to make this short and to the point. I recently met a girl online, lives 1/2 way around the world. We talk everynight on the webcam for 3-5 hours. Every night!. We are basically in love. I am planning on visiting her within 3 weeks. However, there is this other guy who she contacts. She says he's just a friend blah blah blah. Well I dont like him, and he seems to be a real jerk, and he is causing problems. So, should I tell her to either pick him or me, or just let this go.?