In Mobile Me, Apple assumes that the correct store of information is in MM, which updates the Mac, which updates the iPhone. Nonsense! There HAS to be a source, and it ain't MM! I've learned to deal with this between the Mac and the iPhone (by not letting sync change the phone data), but not between the Mac and MM or between the iPhone and MM. There should at least be a choice to REVERSE the flow so that the IPHONE is the source of calendar and contact data, which it is in my case. I always create new calendar entries on the iPhone - NEVER on the Mac or MM. Same with contacts. So why can't I force the Mac and the iPhone to update all MM information? Mobile=>Office=>Cloud. Why is this so hard for Apple to understand? So what am I missing here?